As a parent & a blogger, I keep seeing lot of stuff on social media where mom’s proudly share their child’s achievements in forms of videos & stories.
No doubt it can be inspiring & praise worthy but at the same time it might be creating a peer pressure on other mom’s.
This post is for all those mom’s like me who are still figuring out & waiting for their kids to speak fluently about concepts when asked in one go.
I believe my primary role is more of a nurturer & care provider where I can provide him with as much varied experiences through fun learning way.
After lot of self struggling thoughts on why my child doesn’t answer when asked him about different topics I am settling with only one answer that is giving him his space & time.
I am pretty sure every child picks up skills as per his interest & age and my child too will eventually pace up with time. No doubt we do lot of activities and I am sure those efforts won’t go in vain.
He’s indeed learning a lot in his own ways but only because he doesn’t speak much on academic topics just gave me a little panic & aniexty attack last week.
But then, I paused & reflected on his overall personality development.
Sharing few thoughts that helped me reduce my stress for his academic skills:-
👉 He’s anyway going to learn repetitive concepts in nursery, jr.kg & sr.kg with different levels of understanding.
👉 He just needs the right exposure to become more confident & we are working towards it.
👉 I admire the way he’s developed caring, sharing & kindness towards everyone.
👉 He’s more interested in the process of anything & everything which will stay longer with him.
👉 I just need to trust him with his abilities.
These thoughts just gave me the strength to deal with all the self doubts that I came across.
I hope you can relate to this & would start trusting your child more than comparing.
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